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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
		<link>http://lovingthetasmaniandevil.wordpress.com/2009/06/07/down-the-up-staircase/#comment-187</link>
		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 10:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erin - 
Wow! Nice to meet you in such a strange, roundabout, cybernetic, blog-facilitated kind of way. Your book sounds so great. And to think you were at Smith - maybe when I was in the Connecticut Valley? Stay in touch, I&#039;ll be waiting eagerly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erin &#8211;<br />
Wow! Nice to meet you in such a strange, roundabout, cybernetic, blog-facilitated kind of way. Your book sounds so great. And to think you were at Smith &#8211; maybe when I was in the Connecticut Valley? Stay in touch, I&#8217;ll be waiting eagerly.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin Blakemore</title>
		<link>http://lovingthetasmaniandevil.wordpress.com/2009/06/07/down-the-up-staircase/#comment-186</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin Blakemore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 05:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maureen,

This is very late, but I just vanity Googled myself (for shame!) and found your sweet comment about my forthcoming book, The Heroine&#039;s Bookshelf, on Haven Kimmel&#039;s blog.  I just wanted to say thank you, and that I&#039;ll be following your blog adventures myself as someone who has recurring dreams about Smith College!  :)  

Best,

Erin Blakemore</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maureen,</p>
<p>This is very late, but I just vanity Googled myself (for shame!) and found your sweet comment about my forthcoming book, The Heroine&#8217;s Bookshelf, on Haven Kimmel&#8217;s blog.  I just wanted to say thank you, and that I&#8217;ll be following your blog adventures myself as someone who has recurring dreams about Smith College!  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Erin Blakemore</p>
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		<title>By: Sher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 04:46:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maureen - this is beautiful.  I love the down to earth examples paired with the highly cerebral research.

It touched me on many levels . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maureen &#8211; this is beautiful.  I love the down to earth examples paired with the highly cerebral research.</p>
<p>It touched me on many levels . . .</p>
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		<title>By: carolinkansas</title>
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		<dc:creator>carolinkansas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 16:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve missed lurking on Haven&#039;s blog so much that I decided I&#039;d better bookmark the blogs of her most fabulous contributors before they were lost to me forever...what a wonderful essay this is!  For years, I had a similar dream (about high school), but like you, lately not so much--I don&#039;t really know why.

You are remarkably gifted writer; how lucky your students are that you share your vast talents with them.  And your husband and kids are lucky too...if there&#039;s any justice in the world, someday the readers of your book(s) will be able to share that fortune as well...I&#039;ll be one of them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve missed lurking on Haven&#8217;s blog so much that I decided I&#8217;d better bookmark the blogs of her most fabulous contributors before they were lost to me forever&#8230;what a wonderful essay this is!  For years, I had a similar dream (about high school), but like you, lately not so much&#8211;I don&#8217;t really know why.</p>
<p>You are remarkably gifted writer; how lucky your students are that you share your vast talents with them.  And your husband and kids are lucky too&#8230;if there&#8217;s any justice in the world, someday the readers of your book(s) will be able to share that fortune as well&#8230;I&#8217;ll be one of them!</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 10:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BQD - 
Gee, thanks. I am starting to feel I am going to have to self-publish or just continue with the &quot;blook&quot; idea.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BQD &#8211;<br />
Gee, thanks. I am starting to feel I am going to have to self-publish or just continue with the &#8220;blook&#8221; idea.</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 10:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Linda - 

I am amazed how many people have this same dream, whether it is about high school or college. I think it is because college somehow embodies that ideal dream we had about who we are and whom we wanted to become. In moments when we are questioning our fidelity to that vision, we must go back subconsciously and finish what we started.

Emma just knocks me out. Speaking from experience, keep her away from those dairy  farmers in Minnesota! On the other hand, I am pretty sure cows are fluent in Latin, which I am convinced is the language of heaven and all things holy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Linda &#8211; </p>
<p>I am amazed how many people have this same dream, whether it is about high school or college. I think it is because college somehow embodies that ideal dream we had about who we are and whom we wanted to become. In moments when we are questioning our fidelity to that vision, we must go back subconsciously and finish what we started.</p>
<p>Emma just knocks me out. Speaking from experience, keep her away from those dairy  farmers in Minnesota! On the other hand, I am pretty sure cows are fluent in Latin, which I am convinced is the language of heaven and all things holy.</p>
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		<title>By: Linda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a wonderful piece, Maureen. I so enjoyed reading it. I have a recurring college dream too. I went to Boston University for one year and transferred because of insecurity and lack of money. But still, to this day, 29 later, I have a dream very similar to yours.... I decide to return and finish my degree, but to do so I must leave my family. I have even dreamed about the dorm (my imaginery dorm) apartment I lived in and the roommates - all my own creations. I always wake up with excitement about going back to the city, mixed with guilt and anxiety for leaving the kids. I think the kids stay the same age - probably late elementary school age. Interesting, huh?

Education is so important. You have expressed that so well here. And you know that Emma will major in Latin or Classical Studies. But, as Liz said, she will be able to read, write, analyze, think, create. She will live a full life. This gives me great joy to know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a wonderful piece, Maureen. I so enjoyed reading it. I have a recurring college dream too. I went to Boston University for one year and transferred because of insecurity and lack of money. But still, to this day, 29 later, I have a dream very similar to yours&#8230;. I decide to return and finish my degree, but to do so I must leave my family. I have even dreamed about the dorm (my imaginery dorm) apartment I lived in and the roommates &#8211; all my own creations. I always wake up with excitement about going back to the city, mixed with guilt and anxiety for leaving the kids. I think the kids stay the same age &#8211; probably late elementary school age. Interesting, huh?</p>
<p>Education is so important. You have expressed that so well here. And you know that Emma will major in Latin or Classical Studies. But, as Liz said, she will be able to read, write, analyze, think, create. She will live a full life. This gives me great joy to know.</p>
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		<title>By: brendaquinkydink</title>
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		<dc:creator>brendaquinkydink</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just went and admired Sher&#039;s post so had to visit yours, too...and genuflect here also, you women are so very talented and YES you sure as heck do need an agent..get them books out there so I can read them!
LOL, BDQ</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just went and admired Sher&#8217;s post so had to visit yours, too&#8230;and genuflect here also, you women are so very talented and YES you sure as heck do need an agent..get them books out there so I can read them!<br />
LOL, BDQ</p>
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		<title>By: Liz in Virginia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz in Virginia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 14:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maureen -- My nightmare is that I have to take a final exam in a class that I neglected to attend.  I dream this regularly, and wake up panicky.

My parents, and later my husband, were always supportive of the idea that education is never frivolous or a waste -- and I was never pressured to study something &quot;useful.&quot;  When I tell people I have a literature degree, someone always asks, &quot;What are you going to do with that?&quot;  This question slays me (not least because I&#039;m 46, for God&#039;s sake)!  I am going to read books and think about them and discuss them.  I am going to write well and thoughtfully, and I will always win an argument because I can form that argument succinctly.    I will make connections, understand obscure references, and laugh at hidden meanings in everything I read.  I will fill my house with books, and throw the television in the basement.   I will raise children for whom reading is like breathing.  That&#039;s what I am going to &quot;do.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maureen &#8212; My nightmare is that I have to take a final exam in a class that I neglected to attend.  I dream this regularly, and wake up panicky.</p>
<p>My parents, and later my husband, were always supportive of the idea that education is never frivolous or a waste &#8212; and I was never pressured to study something &#8220;useful.&#8221;  When I tell people I have a literature degree, someone always asks, &#8220;What are you going to do with that?&#8221;  This question slays me (not least because I&#8217;m 46, for God&#8217;s sake)!  I am going to read books and think about them and discuss them.  I am going to write well and thoughtfully, and I will always win an argument because I can form that argument succinctly.    I will make connections, understand obscure references, and laugh at hidden meanings in everything I read.  I will fill my house with books, and throw the television in the basement.   I will raise children for whom reading is like breathing.  That&#8217;s what I am going to &#8220;do.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 18:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am glad to know I am not alone in my paranoia! Miss you, too, girlfriend! I think we all need another rendezvous somewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am glad to know I am not alone in my paranoia! Miss you, too, girlfriend! I think we all need another rendezvous somewhere.</p>
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